Detachment

Hi friends

Detachment

As a species pecies it’s in our nature to become attached to things, whether it’s a person, a momento that holds fond memories, clothes, emotions anything.
Often that feeling of attachment makes us feel secure, happy, in control, but this is not the case, when we are attached emotionally to anything, we become dependant on something that is external from ourselves.
Wayne Dyer has a book called 10 Secrets to Success and Inner Peace, and his first secret is- Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing, which does sound easy until you try to practice it, you then become aware of all your conditioning and beliefs. When you are able to get past this, the possibilities are endless.
When your need to be right, or a feeling of wanting to control someone, or not being able to de-clutter because of being attached to stuff, when you let it all go and have a mind that is open to everything you will experience a state of freedom you’ve never felt before.
Can you love another without being attached ? absolutely, you accept them for what they are unconditionally.
The mind does take some getting your head round the idea, because it feels alien, but it’s well worth the effort.
When we understand that our happiness, joy, inner peace, is an inside job, nothing external can touch us, everything just flows in then out again, you observe it all, but be detached from it.
I don’t know about you, but this concept makes me feel like jumping for joy, it makes me feel free as a bird and oh so powerful.
Happy Wednesday
Lots of Love
Loraine x
Hi friends

Detachment

As a species it’s in our nature to become attached to things, whether it’s a person, a momento that holds fond memories, clothes, emotions anything.

Often that feeling of attachment makes us feel secure, happy, in control, but this is not the case, when we are attached emotionally to anything, we become dependant on something that is external from ourselves.

Wayne Dyer has a book called 10 Secrets to Success and Inner Peace, and his first secret is- Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing, which does sound easy until you try to practice it, you then become aware of all your conditioning and beliefs. When you are able to get past this, the possibilities are endless.

When your need to be right, or a feeling of wanting to control someone, or not being able to de-clutter because of being attached to stuff, when you let it all go and have a mind that is open to everything you will experience a state of freedom you’ve never felt before.

Can you love another without being attached ? absolutely, you accept them for what they are unconditionally.

The mind does take some getting your head round the idea, because it feels alien, but it’s well worth the effort.

When we understand that our happiness, joy, inner peace, is an inside job, nothing external can touch us, everything just flows in then out again, you observe it all, but be detached from it.

I don’t know about you, but this concept makes me feel like jumping for joy, it makes me feel free as a bird and oh so powerful.

Happy Wednesday

Lots of Love
Loraine x

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